My kids have a constant wail about things not being fair. As anyone who has been out in the real world for any length of time can tell you, life isn’t fair. Good things happen to bad people and bad things happen to good people. In and of itself fairness and life do not walk hand in hand.
I prefer to look at choice. Choice is a very powerful thing, its control over your life. It is the ultimate freedom. Its also the ultimate tyranny.